OHR...communication chapter...may be it does help someone to improve their skills...i have a glance over some articles about it too...some of them really expressed well and could be understood and absorbed quickly...when we are talking or discussing with one another...please do care for someone's feeling...although joking or jeering around when we mix with friends...don't be too much and cross over the limit...you don't even note that as if someone is suffering with it...don't keep insulting at the same person with the same stuff...again and again...remember that EVERYONE has their very own feeling...wouldn't reveal any particular person...just reflected some of the examples in our daily life...
Almost all of us rely on buddies around...may be someone does not...we have a wonderful time when we mingle together...to play...to eat and enjoying life...although all called friends...still insulted 'softly' in front of you...what would you do...punch them straight away or you will choose to walk away with a silly smile on your cheeks...i wouldn't curse and didn't give a damn...there is nothing could do at least you really wanna break the friendship...
Not saying that you can't joke or i would say it 'jeer'...you have to learn to listen and accept but not only condemn there...of course i'm not living in a solitary instance of cowardice environment... on the contrary...i think almost all of them could help or discuss to get the problem done...treat your friends well...they have the feeling...care about it...
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
chance given yet......
Although there is a little bit of hope for me...it is really complicated...could i have another options???at least let me to choose the best way...not to follow it blindly...i have the right to demand what i suppose to have...the worst thing happened unfortunately...it doesn't have dead line anymore...so HOW???hate to pass through the ''waiting period''...while this is the truth and nobody could change it...
I wouldn't say that i am down with something else...another way round...i tried my best to solve the dilemma that brought me nowhere recently...and another thing...no one could change me...even though senior/elder/older...don't even persuade me and ordered to do whatever you would like to...anyway...forget about it...
I wouldn't say that i am down with something else...another way round...i tried my best to solve the dilemma that brought me nowhere recently...and another thing...no one could change me...even though senior/elder/older...don't even persuade me and ordered to do whatever you would like to...anyway...forget about it...
Friday, April 2, 2010
nothing is impossible???
Something inspired me to get back my "human sense" and such feeling...the bravery to continue where i stuck on...don't know since when i have stepped inside such big deep hole...it became fact and isn't it faith???could i change it somehow i don't know the way to lead myself somewhere else i wish to... just want to grab the opportunity and fulfill my desires in my mind...really that tough??? seems nobody could answer...do hope that someone could listen and accept my suggestion at the right time...please DO NOT convince me with those ridiculous reasons...it was not true at all...i could handle it as well...why don't you think about what circumstances i am facing and consequences at last...i just don't want to make things worse or even worst...please again...think about it with standing by my side...
Wondering that this stuff offered me how many sleepless nights...wrestled and strove against it...while tried to have my fitful sleep...yet i failed...i must convince you but not another way round...every time when i was thinking about this...that is the word -->down ...i will prove it to you all...please believe in me...
I did make myself get high last week...it was pretty cool...the feeling was freaking great...spent the whole night giggling, but never got totally drunk...that was the only night i could sleep tight without any deep thinking...i admitted i did deny when was being questioned...i am okay...may be someone could see it through...yet i denied...but i was really fine...such a silly...confused...
''how could this happen to me''
-may be i made my mistakes and nowhere to run
-nights goes on as i am fading away, just wanna scream
-hope when i open my eyes, i cant remember how, i cant remember why, i am lying here
-with everyone's screaming, i try to make a sound but no one hears me
-could i say 'i am sick of this life'
Even though i could get what i want at this moment...but i believe it would not last longer as it goes further...may be i cant cope with it...and don't even try on my endurance...will burst it out soon...don't piss me off often (particular person)...so i chose to walk slower and leave behind...
Have to thank someone who cheers around...even though one day instead...yet you covered it well too...so as we are classified in the same type of creature...hopefully could solve it as soon as possible...i did agree ''don't think too much''...but sometimes just couldn't take it as easy as you think...have to consider the situations we are facing...anyway...just try to solve it if you can...yet i have to get the right time...never known when is it...still an unknown there...
well...life goes on...^^
Wondering that this stuff offered me how many sleepless nights...wrestled and strove against it...while tried to have my fitful sleep...yet i failed...i must convince you but not another way round...every time when i was thinking about this...that is the word -->down ...i will prove it to you all...please believe in me...
I did make myself get high last week...it was pretty cool...the feeling was freaking great...spent the whole night giggling, but never got totally drunk...that was the only night i could sleep tight without any deep thinking...i admitted i did deny when was being questioned...i am okay...may be someone could see it through...yet i denied...but i was really fine...such a silly...confused...
''how could this happen to me''
-may be i made my mistakes and nowhere to run
-nights goes on as i am fading away, just wanna scream
-hope when i open my eyes, i cant remember how, i cant remember why, i am lying here
-with everyone's screaming, i try to make a sound but no one hears me
-could i say 'i am sick of this life'
Even though i could get what i want at this moment...but i believe it would not last longer as it goes further...may be i cant cope with it...and don't even try on my endurance...will burst it out soon...don't piss me off often (particular person)...so i chose to walk slower and leave behind...
Have to thank someone who cheers around...even though one day instead...yet you covered it well too...so as we are classified in the same type of creature...hopefully could solve it as soon as possible...i did agree ''don't think too much''...but sometimes just couldn't take it as easy as you think...have to consider the situations we are facing...anyway...just try to solve it if you can...yet i have to get the right time...never known when is it...still an unknown there...
well...life goes on...^^
Friday, February 19, 2010
^the food^
^wshaun^
^whooi^
^jyong^
^cute aitee^
^DJ with speaker^
^the bacon^
^fire eventually^Having a bbq party at night...my hometown there...with old buddies...went to ks's house...quite fun actually...
Bought chicken...after playing arcade...hahax...but we cant have it all...
Miss you all guys...good luck anyway...
Saturday, February 13, 2010
-PaintBall- w@r
First experience playing paintball...cool game...one gang about 10 ppl went to CintaSayang in the afternoon...started 4 o'clock sharp...took almost 3 hours there...played many games...captured the flag...last men standing...i won once in last men standing luckily...
We did enjoy the games...nice one...yet exhausted...i get 3 'black green' obviously in this coming CNY...called 'painball' what...xD...gain pain^^ next round...
First experience playing paintball...cool game...one gang about 10 ppl went to CintaSayang in the afternoon...started 4 o'clock sharp...took almost 3 hours there...played many games...captured the flag...last men standing...i won once in last men standing luckily...
We did enjoy the games...nice one...yet exhausted...i get 3 'black green' obviously in this coming CNY...called 'painball' what...xD...gain pain^^ next round...
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
~party everyday~
Had fun...relaxing~~~
0 - SW1 - EC
X - GX
^huge star network with huge DOT^ 
^with Rain^
^steam...BBQ...xD^ Tuesday, January 26, 2010
^forsak€ stres$^
It felt as if a huge weight had been lifted of my shoulders...feel like just wanna yell and yelp sharply...hahaxxx...just wanna scream~~~that's great...xD
Simpered after leaving the damn hall that fixed me in two weeks...5 tough days there...
Eventually...today is the day...YEAH!!!
Jaunty mood...everyone cheered up considerably...
Breathless with excitement^^
It felt as if a huge weight had been lifted of my shoulders...feel like just wanna yell and yelp sharply...hahaxxx...just wanna scream~~~that's great...xD
Simpered after leaving the damn hall that fixed me in two weeks...5 tough days there...
Eventually...today is the day...YEAH!!!
Jaunty mood...everyone cheered up considerably...
Breathless with excitement^^
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
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